Emotional and spiritual self-sustainability is the underlying philosophy and practice of Fun2beme Coaching™.
Negative emotional-, thought- and behavioral patterns, as well as any associated psychosomatic manifestation can be eased or completely transformed using the different modalities of Fun2beme Coaching.
With the help of energy-psychology and guided meditations, we create an emotionally neutral state. In this heightened state of self-awareness it becomes much easier to recognise and remind yourself of your natural and balanced true-self.
You then become the observer of You, the ‘human project’ and its conditioning. This offers the necessary space to define a new Life-Philosophy and a Concept-of-Self without the previously executed self-sabotaging programs.
With further exercises we anchor the new I-Consciousness, assuring that a continuous transformation can be maintained. This naturally promotes trust in your personal journey, which leads to self-love and self-acceptance; really the only way to feel content.
Introducing the Philosophy of Fun2beme
We are bio-energetic conscious beings in a world of duality, where the quality and quantity of our emotional vibration form our reality. Therefore matter has no choice but to follow the law of attraction based on the electro-magnetic frequencies we emit.
Albert Einstein: Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it.
Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality.
It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics.
Almost all of our conditioning, therefore all emotional-, thought- and behavioural patterns are a direct consequence of our genetic coding adopted at conception. Even though brought to light by the epigenetics, how we can and will react to a situation is nothing but a reflection of those different patterns which our parents and other ancestors held prior to us.
We as the eternal soul entity are the guardian of our ‘human project’, assisting it to heal those handed down fear patterns and in doing so, transform low frequencies into a higher resonance field, bringing the dark to light. Or with other words, we are participating in the evolutionary process of the collective human consciousness.
As that eternal being we take the limited ‘I’ in human form on a spiritual journey. Once on the journey, we have a natural urge, a deeply felt need, to fully reconnect with god, spirit, Christ/Buddha-nature, source energy, that cosmic collective consciousness, … our higher self.
Our world of duality is in principal a binary code, where the ‘I’ needs to consist of two archetypes, Yin and Yang. Yin represents the feminine, matter, the inner child; and Yang the masculine, energy, the heavenly wise old.
Yin creates, Yang activates. The feminine creates the masculine and the masculine activates the feminine.
Therefore, in this world of duality there are only two primal feelings required, love and fear. Consequently as the two archetypes Yin represents primal-fear and Yang primal-love.
Emotions on the other hand are reactions to situations based on past experiences and future expectations, again all depending on our inherited conditioning.
With the right understanding that conditioning and the consequent behavior offers acceptable insight to our ego/mind. Most importantly, this invites ego/mind to collaborate towards transformation and to stop all previous self-sabotage.
However we can only achieve this by providing a clear and logical Life-Philosophy and a Concept-of-Self which the ego/mind will accept. It really has to tick all the boxes, otherwise we will experience once again how our previous self-undermining programs are begining to interfere once again.
So once the philosophy has been ‘approved’ by the mind, we now need to feel that truth in our heart. Only when the heart resonates in accordance with our intellectual decision will we build the resonance field in which a new reality can be created and experienced. As always, it is what we hold in our heart as emotional truth that will manifest.
That’s how knowledge becomes wisdom.
In every one of us emotional disharmonies are expressed by the imbalance between anima and animus, the inner female and male personalities; and our ego has no choice but to hold the mirror as those two get along with each other in their ‘relationship as a couple’.
Our ego has no choice but to exactly play out that relationship. How those two get along with each other determines all the positive and negative emotions we experience. Consequently this means that, whenever we react with negative emotions, our feminine and masculine sides are not fully connected; heaven and earth are separated.
In such a situation the ‘woman’ within has not the support of her ‘man’. She is not complete, is separated from spirituality and therefore heavenly love. So not surprising she fears and concequently acts with negative emotions.
It is the role of our masculine personality to make her feel safe, offer love and hold her space. In that way he activates her. Only then can she feel secure, trust in the process of life and naturaly create in abundance.
However, there is also an other roll-play going on with two different actors. Instead of the female-male relationship, the adult personalities, often we can also experience a disharmony between the inner child and the wise old, the heavenly mother and father. That’s when we display a more childlike, or even childish behavior.
Again the inner child, like the feminine, when not connected to Yang, feels fear, unloved, unaccepted and can’t help but react accordingly. In moments like this, the lack of self-acceptance and self-love, once more based on our inherited ancestral conditioning, shows itself and asks you, as the project manager of your human ‘I’, to recognise and harmonise those ill patterns.
Once the relationship between the inner feminine and masculine, the inner child and the wise old is re-established, old patterns resolve and a harmonic resonance of acceptance and self-love is created in which healing and transformation naturally takes place.
Only in the absence of our inherited fears will we naturally trust and surrender to the human journey, simply feeling content as is. By practicing to maintain a balanced and kind relationship between the inner feminine and masculine side, awareness of self-love and self-acceptance grows. That’s how we become emotionally fit where emotional independence and self-sustainability is created, the only way to feel free and equanimous.